Why is Assertiveness Hard to Learn?

Of all the skills that are taught by SFT, assertiveness appears to the most difficult to learn.  Unlike conventional wisdom that thinks assertiveness is being blunt or aggressive, it actually is getting needs met without offending others. Sometimes a student comes into a session and expresses how he was assertive.  When he explains what he told the other person, it is not assertive at all.  In fact, it turns out to be very aggressive.  This is due to several factors: Read more

Will SFT be Adding Cowboy Country?

We just finished the workshop in Butte, Montana.  It was a great success and will probably offer more opportunities for SFT.  For example, a young man named Chase Walters has been trained, and may be taking students soon.  Keep this in your prayers. 

Also, thank you to the Walters family for taking care me during my stay in MT.